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Intro to Masculine Social Dynamics: Becoming Magnetic #272
Unlock the secrets to becoming a magnetically confident man with our intro to masculine social dynamics.
In this video, we'll dive into the world of self-improvement, exploring the principles of authentic masculinity, emotional intelligence, and social mastery.
You'll learn how to harness your inner power and develop the influence skills needed to build strong relationships, attract like-minded individuals, and exude confidence in any social situation. From networking tricks and alpha behaviour to dating strategies and relationship skills.
This is your blueprint if you're tired of forcing results and want to attract the life, love, and leadership you know you're capable of.
💥 What You'll Learn in This Video:
• How to get over imposter syndrome as a business owner
• The mindset shift that led me to land $1K/month clients instantly
• The exact techniques behind Masculine Social Dynamics (Positioning, Framing, Delivery, Hosting, Authentic Engagement, etc.)
• The magnetism model that helped me triple my income and lead men's groups
• Why discipline alone isn't enough if your nervous system is wrecked
• How to influence people, gain respect, and become that guy without selling out
👇 TIMESTAMPS
00:00 - Why MSD was created (and who it's for)
01:58 - Pitching my first $200K offer: full breakdown
05:59 - My first high-ticket client (and how it changed my identity)
07:36 - Position + Frame + Delivery = MSD
09:15 - Steamy Saturdays men's circle story
13:20 - How MSD changes your dating, business, and friendships
14:44 - Why you're haunted by your goals
15:57 - The MSD 4-Step Process
18:14 - Full MSD Skill List
23:22 - Magnetism: The X-Factor
24:53 - Emotional Intelligence = Leadership
26:34 - Self-audit questions to unlock magnetism
27:12 - Join the 7-Day Magnetic Challenge
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Welcome to this introduction onto masculine social dynamics.
Speaker 1:In this video, I'm going to teach you guys all of the techniques and tools that you can use to increase your social skills so that you can improve your dating life, improve your business life and become way more confident so that when you walk into a room, you're like the most magnetic person that is in there. These are all the tools and the techniques. This is a bit of an introduction into masculine social dynamics. This is my life's work. This is applying everything that I've learned in regards to being a personal development, personal brand business coach and health and fitness holistic men's coach, and I've put it all into one and I understand that using these skills is what helps people to become that confident, magnetic person. Let's get into it. Essentially, what masculine social dynamics does is it helps you to stop giving a fuck about what others think and you start magnetizing your desires through authenticity. Masculine social dynamics, once studied, is a practical guide to overcoming burnout, dopamine addiction. Once studied, is a practical guide to overcoming burnout, burnout, dopamine addiction. You stop being invisible and feeling like, no matter what you do, nothing is ever still enough. So overcoming that and you know it has been the thing that has helped me the most in regards to finding freedom and fulfillment with my own authenticity. And it wasn't until that I started applying these techniques and understanding the dynamics that I was able to go oh, this is what my power is, this is my magnetism, and just feel this overwhelming juice and zest back for life. So picture this right I walk into a meeting nervous, my hands are shaking, shaking and I'm about to pitch a 21 year old multi-millionaire my finalized proposed optimization coaching program that I created when I very first started coaching. That has a blend of health optimization and shadow work for internal healing and I'm like freaking out right. Coming in to guy Now, the conclusion on this story is wild, right.
Speaker 1:So this sent me on my path to purpose. We already had like, as I'm sitting here, like about to pitch this guy. Previously, if we take it back a week, we'd already had a sunny, caffeine infused winter day running through how my program wasn't a personal training program and how I could use it to help it support him. And his habits had been shocking. He had crazed and a heavy-eyed addiction to energy drinks and caffeine. He was working till 4 am in the morning most nights in a purple-dimmed light penthouse. He was introverted. He was a passionate business owner. Socially he was actually pretty good. However, because of his habits and his routines, it would make him close up and shut down so much more, which wasn't serving him. Money was flowing for him, but his money mindset and his health was absolute trash and in the bin and it was affecting his social life. He would go on to tell me later on that at 19, he was put into a hospital due to a heart attack. Right, had a heart attack at 19.
Speaker 1:I started thinking, fuck, I've got no degree in health. Like, am I even qualified to help this guy? Imposter syndrome on the entrepreneur's journey, just kicking me in the guts, running through my mind, stressing me out right, and overcoming that part of the journey comes a little bit later. So we sit on the edge of a rich wood like a rich wood boardroom table. Right, it's like a mahogany type of wood and we're overlooking the beaches and hotels filled with sunlight in this room. And he's sitting at the end of the table facing and looking at a laptop. And there's me sitting next to him looking where I can see the planes fly over the sun, the water, and it's quite beautiful, but my hands are on my knees and I'm shaking, holding onto my legs, because this is like for my first positioned sales conversion conversation ever.
Speaker 1:I'll talk a little bit more about positioning later, but I was asking him for around 200 grand. Right, this is my first time coaching and I'm asking someone for 200 grand crazy, this is the most I'd ever charged anyone and this time I was around 27 years old, you know. The most I'd ever charged someone was like 500. So I'm freaking out because I'm like this is the most amount of money ever. But I was like manifesting. I'm like change my life. This is gonna be the best. And you know that, feeling what your breath is like almost about to leave your body, that you know all these thoughts in my head. My life's about to change. This is a new destiny for me. This is a new career path. Will he say yes or you know? And if he do or don't, I'll still be happy regardless. Like I'll still be happy, even if you know, and that pit of butterflies is so strong it feels like there's an uncomfortable, like vacuum bag in your guts, just sinking and raising, and like you feel your hands go cold. Like this was such a significant moment and I was just manifesting like he was gonna say yes. He was gonna say yes.
Speaker 1:So he ran through everything of like the program using masculine social dynamics and purpose and all the rest of it and he was like how much? And was like 7% of all your income, which is, you know, around 200K a year. And I remember silence just happened right. And for someone who's making millies for me, like for one-on-one coaching, like even that is getting up there. So he immediately froze, pupils, dilated, silence happens and I could feel his nervous system just get triggered. He was like, oh my goodness. And in a shaky, raspy voice he said to me oh man, I can't do that, there's no way.
Speaker 1:I was thinking we do like 1K per month, with his head kind of looking down like this, and the nice guy in me felt so fucking bad for putting him in that situation. I was like, oh my God, I just put more stress on him. But the masculine, magnetic leader in me was ready for the challenge to change his life. I was like, come on, like that masculine leader in me was ready for the challenge to change this guy's life, bring it on. So the positioning shifted and I wanted him as a client more so than what he was willing to pay. Because I'm like, you know, let me at it. So I had no sales skills at this point, like I didn't know what a sales call was. I didn't know how to do sales. I just had this ego thing like, oh, I can talk to people, I'll be good at sales, right. But you know, I had no understanding of masculine social dynamics at this point. I had like a little bit of a clue, but I didn't know what.
Speaker 1:It was said yes to his offer and his co-offer was like, okay, let's, um, let's do one 1k a month, right, how about we do that instead? And it was like, you know, totals like six, six months was like six grand, right, first sales, like that's actually incredible. I was like, yeah, pitch, pitch for the stars land on the moon guys. So, with tears in my eyes of happiness for landing my first high ticket client and being able to. So, with tears in my eyes of happiness for landing my first high ticket client, I had tears in my eyes for happiness for landing my first high ticket client. Being able to share my gifts and coach this brilliant kid on becoming a magnetic leader inside and out was so thrilling to me that I was smashing galantis the whole way home. I was just dancing like, wow, my life's about to change, right?
Speaker 1:Because my income as well went from like 70 grand a year to like plus 12k, so it went to like 82 grand a year. I was like, oh my goodness. Like, even though you know I was like 1k a month, I'm always going to have clients now and this is the first breakthrough moment that I ever had. So just by sharing my passion and what I've been doing with him, I was able to land two more clients after that, both at 1K a month. So I really quickly went up to like 120K per year. With my job of around 70K a year which I was getting paid for, I was like, oh, my goodness. So my money mindset just expanded.
Speaker 1:Importantly, my frame got upgraded more on frame later. This is the most masculine social dynamic technique and that comes to, you know, for charging my services. It was more bulletproof, stronger and backed with real life experience. So that frame wasn't going anywhere. It's like cool, I've proved myself. My posture and frame is just on.
Speaker 1:So the secret sauce was position plus frame plus delivery equals masculine social dynamics. That's essentially the whole thing of it. So position is like what's your positioning? You notice I had positioning before I pitched this young guy the money, and then afterwards he was like I can't do that. His position shift because I wanted him to work with him more than what he was willing to pay. So of course it's going to go down. But then the frame was also got changed for me forever because I was like okay, cool, like I can always charge this amount.
Speaker 1:So this energetic frame, that shift and then the delivery of how I delivered it, you know, for example, was one part of me was like nervous and shaking, but the other part of me, with this magnetic masculine leader, that was just like let's go. So combining those together equals MSD. And I realized combining with my regular income, you know, and working, you know, because working in leadership and organizational development in the government, you know I was now making more than the directors there. You know I was like what the hell I'm making more than directors here. But not only that, but you know that that guy, he become a close friend and a mentor to me, which got him, we got him optimized and locked in more than he ever had in his entire life and we would spend time working at his penthouse, organizing his kitchen, analyzing his aura ring, holding him accountable, completing my self-reflection exercises, teaching him MSD and coaching him through his beliefs and breaking through them.
Speaker 1:And every Saturday night we'd run a men's group called Steamy Saturdays, where six to ten of us entrepreneurial men would meditate in a group. Right, we'd all meditate, we share our goals, accountability and be grateful, sort of like, you know, big men circle like around a boardroom table and then we would rotate between us, visualizing and talking about the impact, um and the and our potential of what we want our future to be, and visualizing it in this like super hot spa, like it was so hot outside this penthouse and because it was freezing and we were in adelaide, we would jump into this pool which had no heating. It was so cold in the pool that we'd go back and forth and back and forth and back and forth to like refresh our brains. And then we would, like you know, jump outside on the balcony and just like scream our manifestation, like into just the universe, as we're like meditating. It was so awesome and the bigger the breakthrough in the spa, the bigger the breakthrough, the yell on the balcony, and then all the guys would get around you. Every time you'd have a huge, like you know, break over. So it's just, you know, um, breakthrough. So it was just, breakthrough after breakthrough after breakthrough. We're all doing this together and you know, it was like this, um, it's almost like this purple night with city, city lights steam off of our backs, belief in our hearts, like it was really beautiful. And it's safe to say that every man who came to that experience is excelling in their own friendship circles, physically, energetic and financially, more than anyone else that I know who weren't in that circle of people. So if there were people or side people that are in a circle, anyone who went to that is just doing vastly better in every area of life. It is crazy, and this is the power of hosting right, which is another masculine social dynamics technique with high value. Men later discovered to be an MSD.
Speaker 1:So, with this newfound confidence with my skills and successes, my mind dreamed of the possibilities for what is achievable with my intimate relationships, and this is the business experiences and impact I can now go on and create. I had this belief walk through my mind. The main thing I thought about was how effortless everything came to me after this and as I was working through this, I set the intention, I took big action. I got out of my comfort zone and opportunity, clients and, more important, my highest desires and dreams became attracted to me. Things started walking into my life like clients and opportunities and people that I wanted to date or speak to and, essentially, finally, after years of forcing, comparing myself, pushing, my perception finally shifted to being able to receive a life that I wanted to happen for me. And it is time for me to get the fuck out of here Adelaide and take my first step on my new journey, filled with wonder in my heart. What will happen next? Right, that's what I was thinking. Beautiful thing.
Speaker 1:So for the love of wisdom, right, this is essentially integrating and removing all the imposter syndrome feeling like a fraud, perfectionistic self-doubt, limiting beliefs. And essentially, I had it stored in my body and I had to prove to myself I have what it takes to be a man worthy enough to lead other men. And what I realized is that the daily actions you commit to are a pure reflection of your business, your body, your charisma and your results. Your business is a reflection of your body. Your body is a reflection of your mindset. Your relationship is a reflection of your own self-worth, like and just understanding how important these are.
Speaker 1:What I didn't know was the power you get as a man from when you do step into magnetism and otherwise you're always in a state of repel versus attract and you don't want to stay in the repelling state Because whenever you set an intention, you put yourself in tension, like you put yourself experiencing tension, until you either get it is what you want or you give up on it. So if you set an intention I want to get this thing and the second you set that intention, if you're not taking actions, if you're not working on yourself, if you're not going through the breakthroughs, if you're not sitting in that tension, then what will happen is it'll get you and you'll start to experience negative tension, not a positive pull, and things will feel harder and everything will feel like it's forcing because you're just not doing the things aligned with what it is that's going to help you get that goal. So what I also didn't realize is that MSD and masculine social dynamics are at their most powerful in relationships that are struggling to give into the flow of love is for getting your ex back. So being able to be in the position that the dream girl that you want becomes completely obsessed with you and thrilled for the chance to just give to you. To make business with someone that you've always wanted to get into business with is to increase massive amounts of sales and profits. You use masculine social dynamics to become the most influential and confident man in every room that you walk into, to be the leader in your empire that everyone loves, instead of a tyrant. To speak on stage without nerves of anxiety, but with confidence and excitement. It's creating magnetic, authentic content that make people want to reach out to you, watch your videos, click your links and send you DMs. It's to have other leaders on social media want to connect and reach out to you and to create the inner circle of influence that you've always wanted to be around, so that you can be the number three in the five circle of friends. Right, and does this sound to you like a leader that you want to be? Because it does for me. And these techniques can be used for male or female, right? It's just a masculine way of doing it and it's not an intuitive way of manifesting and just thinking.
Speaker 1:This is a specific, step-by-step process, you know, using masculine social dynamics to attract what haunts you at night time, that you haven't got it yet right. It's haunting right and the reason that your goal and your intuition and your influence and your everything has chosen a path for you, you know. That's why it's haunting you. That's why when you wake up in the morning and at night time you don't feel good enough. You can get depressed or nervous or you feel lonely or shut down. It's because you want this fucking thing so bad and you're just not taking action to get there because you don't know how you haven't got the plan. There's some emotional blockage or whatever it is that's getting in the way.
Speaker 1:The solution is masculine social dynamics. It'll get you out of it and help You're moving you toward it. So every step that you take, your goal and what you want and your desire, starts taking a step towards you. That's the goal. So this is the process, right? The process is you audit yourself and decide for your own awareness of the desires that you want and how. You're the bottleneck right, where are the bottlenecks? And that is a fear of acknowledging your current state. That's what you have to overcome. Number two is the tension you're going to feel in the process. You set an intention and you will feel tension, and that tension that you sit in is a fear of change. When you understand what that is, it makes the leaning into doing the difficult things a lot more easy. Three, it's expanding the capacity for a nervous system upgrade, which is overcoming your fear of rejection and fear of reintegration, which is after the change. Now I'm going to get rejected. I've got to pitch this new version of myself. I've got to reintegrate. People have got to learn my new identity. And then number four is leadership, is receivership. This is the fourth step, and that is the fear of power and magnetism, which is directly correlated to your own self-worth, bringing everything in right instead of hiding.
Speaker 1:So this is the model that we use for learning skills and most masculine social dynamics. So we run through that process and we figure out where you're at and then we plug in and bolt masculine social dynamics onto you with a new skill set, whether that be online, whether that be systems, whether that be online, whether that be systems, whether that be emotional intelligence, you know, and that will help you get there. So below is a quick list that I'm going to explain to you, which is like all the techniques that will show you. You know masculine social dynamics is, and each skill has a model that will be explained in further detail later on, when you guys want to learn about it, or if you want to more and deep, just come and join, set the standard, join our school groups, go join our community, um, and jump on some coaching with me, like I'll run you guys through it.
Speaker 1:Masking, uh, mastering these few techniques will take you from a business or a startup business owner who's passionate about business, who knows that social skills and dynamics are the thing that is preventing not just your profit and your income, but your fulfillment and your income, but your fulfillment and your potential for what you desire most in life. And it's just so easy to research and build and outsource the systems and they are skills these days that you can get AI to do. You can hire someone to do these skills, but what can't be done for you is learning how to influence people in a healthy way that feels great for the both of you, unless someone else is the face of your brand or something like that and you want them to move through, and it's just profit that you're after, but when it comes to you, whether you're dating your personal life. It's you leading the business, you're leading a team. It's like those are the skills that are gonna I gotta be the most beneficial for you. So you'll literally influence human behavior in others that they are absolutely ecstatic to use in such a win-win-win way, and people will saturate you with healthy, genuine love, appreciation and acknowledgement. That actually makes life feel meaningful. How amazing is that? Because, from using masculine social dynamics, you would have provided, set boundaries and used authentic engagement which builds genuine trust, so that when you get what you want or desire, you don't feel guilty about it and instead you celebrate with the feeling of cheer, right? So here are some of the masculine social dynamics. These are some, right. These are just like a bunch. There's probably about the same amount of these, more so but these are some of the main techniques that I've coined for the moment, which, using these, I think, just even just knowing what they are, it's going to be so beneficial for you. So here they are. Masculine social dynamics is the art of using authentic leadership to bend your reality to your will.
Speaker 1:Entrepreneur's journey, a step-by-step process every entrepreneur and founder goes through that perfectly aligns with the hero myth. Resisting this journey will make your life difficult. You'll feel stuck and like you're always forcing everything. Locating where you are on the entrepreneur's journey helps you make decisions that result in extraordinary jumps to be exactly where you need to be in your career, where progress feels effortless due to magnetism. Now, this is understanding where you are in your model. Most people freak out in regards to life, like purpose, this thing, whatever it is like. Where am I going to go? Blah, blah, blah. And if they don't know where they are and they're not sure the path that they're on, then things get overwhelming.
Speaker 1:Positioning I mentioned this before. It's unconscious or conscious permission to lead, creating magnetic eagerness and a will to follow in other people, right. So this is unconscious or conscious permission to lead, right, which can be, you know, subtle, or it can be quite direct framing subtle or subtle, conscious or unconscious perception game plays to control or influence social containers, best used post authentic positioning. So this is like you know. Framing is awesome and it can be used. 100 for manipulation. However, if you use it for manipulation purposes and it's negative, you're just going to get your ass handed to you in some way, shape or form. Eventually, when you use framing and it's from a place of honesty, authenticity and from a good moral judgment. It's just this beautiful way of you know, being able to create a win-win-win for you and other parties.
Speaker 1:Masculine delivery being able to create a win-win-win for you and other parties. Masculine delivery so this is making decisions and requests from others, directly or indirectly, in a way that communicates your desires clearly, right? So this is making decisions and requests from other people, either indirectly or directly. That in a way that communicates your desires clearly. So essentially, she's like this is how I communicate my desires Bang, you completely understand them, but you're either doing it in a way that's like this is my desire, or you do it maybe in like a cheekier way, which is like a subtle hint. People go, oh, that's amazing, like blah, blah, blah, and then you know that comes from knowing what you want right.
Speaker 1:This is one of the things with you know, masculine social dynamics is, as a man, like most men I find fail most things of their lives purely because they just don't like most men fail most things in their lives purely because they just don't like most men fail most things in their life because they just don't know if it's 100% what they want right. And you can either spend time figuring that out, doing a bunch of different things, or you can spend the time getting clear on, you know, self-awareness, understanding yourself, writing things down, talking to people and trying things with the intention of finding out what it is that you want without feeling guilty for something right. It's a lot of anti-people pleasing stuff. Hosting, facilitation of in-person or digital experiences organized by you, demonstrating responsibility, providing and receivership. We're going to receive a ship in a bit, but hosting is just absolutely essential as masculine social dynamic men who want to be magnetic leaders and charismatic. That just has to be done.
Speaker 1:Effortless attraction when synchronicity, shit just happens for you in magical ways that you can't explain and it's uncanny, right. Effortless attraction it happens, it's a thing and you want to pay attention to it. Intention so this is sitting in the feeling of pressure, responsibility, nerves or excitement you get after setting an intention comfort zone, containers, frames, mindsets and environments that you create for yourself that are great, but keep your potential limited and it is the temptation to stay stagnant. We don't want that. When you get out of that killing comparison, so turning triggers of jealousy not good enough in a victim mindset into celebration and take an action, taking so important. This is converting negative you know emotions into positive receivership, the ability to receive the six love languages with masculine grace. And action-taking. So important. This is converting negative emotions into positive Receivership, the ability to receive the six love languages with masculine grace With masculine grace, not feminine grace. This is receiving in a really good way. I love that you did that for me. I like it when you do this, it makes me happy when you do this, it pleases me when you do this for me. That is receivership, but it's done in a leading way. Providing right um, that is receivership, but it's done in a leading way.
Speaker 1:Providing earned, earned position to give and be received right. So providing is you've actually earned the position to be that guy that can give and be received. If you're, if you haven't got the you know that providing pillar yet, then no one's gonna, you know, want to receive from you. They're not going to want to have your gifts and you're not going to feel received. And that can happen in dating relationships, marriages, in business. When you start like you know leading and you feel like you're disrespected, it's like, well, you haven't earned the place to be in a providing. You know providing position, so to be a provider, you've got to earn it right. So that's why it says earned position. It's just a position Bound right. So that's why it says earned position. It's just a position boundary setting the ability to be able to enforce your negotiable and non-negotiable social preferences in relationships in a healthy and authentic way.
Speaker 1:Authentic engagement, the result post inner work and integration for being able to play big socially in person and online, without the feeling of feeling like a fraud or anxiety about what others think. Right, right, the authentic engagement is so critically important. You can see it on content. You can see it in person when you're speaking to someone. Then magnetism, also known as charismatism baby, let's go. This is the place where you get to when you walk into a room or you publish something online and people and opportunities just come towards you. Right, because it has this someone's like man. You got that kind of vibe about you, you got the X factor. You know you don't really have to do anything much other than really show up because you're just in line. There's no pressure. I know you're just, you're in alignment and there's no pressure on you to be someone else. So essentially, that is the above is explained process and you can kind of they kind of work through a like.
Speaker 1:I've put it into a model where it works through a U-shape, sort of like a magnet, if you think, like the South Pole and the North Pole, and then it goes around in a U-shape and essentially, the positive charge of the magnet is all about recharging to overcome the fear of accepting where you're at in life. And then we go into the middle of the magnet, which is the second stage, which is a neutral charge. This is the tunnel phase of following the, the process to become a masculine leader, right, and this is fear. Going through this is complete fear. When you're going through this tunnel process, this was when everything feels fucked and you're like what's going on here? I'm lost, directionalist, alone, no one listens to me, no one gets me, I'm down, freaking out. This is hard. Finances are crazy. I'm hiring people I don't know if they're good enough. Why do I miss it? Hate me, like all that shit.
Speaker 1:Um, followed by the third stage of action, which is through to the negative charge of push, which represents overcoming fear in general, which produces results, right? So this is how it works, and the inventor of psychology is a Swiss psychologist, which is called Carl Jung. Oh, jungy boy. Right, he stated that for a man to become his most masculine, it's his greatest challenge integrating his feminine inside of himself. And for a woman to become her most feminine, her greatest challenge is through integrating the masculine inside herself. So the result is, for men specifically, is increased emotional intelligence and nervous system regulation under times of stress. So this is actually taking the time to understand your emotions and know how they work, and do cathartic releases and be in the process of right. Let's let our shit out, let's do men's work, let's like, get this so that you can integrate your feminine, so that you can become a better leader. And this is crazy, right?
Speaker 1:I've interviewed some of the best leadership trainers in the world and they said this did you know? This is why leadership is commonly referred to as just emotional intelligence. Leadership, emotional intelligence two sides same coin. They're exact same thing. So, simply put, when you have a greater understanding of yourself and you have a greater understanding of others and you face the three common fears in the U-magnet model, which was the fear of accepting where you're at in life, the fear of of change and then the fear of producing results, right, so once you face those, it enhances your ability to gain position. Right. So now you can start gaining masculine position and it influences your ability to be able to create frame, you know, with good masculine delivery, which then results in just pure magnetism. Baby, let's go.
Speaker 1:So this is the result of achieving and activating both sides of the you magnet model and you know I'm repeating the process to you beforehand and I'm just going to finish on this because I think this is so important, and that is the process is the audit for awareness of where you are, which is, you know, fear of acknowledging your current state, of where you're at right now. It is the intention process, which is overcoming a fear of change. It's expanding your capacity for your nervous system to upgrade, which is a fear of rejection and reintegration. And then the last one is a fear of power and magnetism, which is leadership. So that's sort of the process that you'd run through and you can ask yourself these questions Write out what you fear to acknowledge about yourself, what are you scared to own about yourself, what's your fear of change that you perceive in your own mind? And if you think about yourself at your most magnetic and compare the fear of action that that person doesn't have to where you are now, list them out. So it's like okay, you at your most magnetic. You now what's the fear that you have that that person doesn't Write it out, list it down.
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